The Gospel According to Iowa Nice

“Be nice.” It’s one of the first things many of us are taught, and for good reason; kindness matters. But when niceness becomes about keeping the peace at any cost, it can cause us to swallow honest words, avoid hard conversations, and mistake smooth sailing for genuine care. Often real love requires more than a polite smile. This week we’ll explore the difference between being nice and being loving, and what it might mean to speak the truth in love.